I don’t care about having my chair pulled out for me. There should be another basic rule that says to be nice to other people. There’s nothing worse than being on a date with a guy who wants to pick on someone else in the restaurant or bash others. Gross. (via vela (via: anthonymichaelrojas)
here you go guys, ill give you the bare basics. fuck treating women like its medieval times. this is all you have to do. listen, respond intelligently, follow up to what theyre saying. dont talk about yourself until she brings it up and if she never does just fucking leave right then and there because shes more interested in herself than she ever will be in you. pursue interest in their passion. make lots of eye contact. get laid.(via choppinkarate)
And order a bunch of appetizers. Mmm. MMM! (via vela)
But what if you happen to be at Medieval Times? Then can we treat her like it’s medieval times? (via nickgerber)
Seriously, I don’t want to do the “I’m a nice guy but no girls like me routine.” I tried that in high school, and through college out of habit, and it doesn’t work. But who exactly are y’all dating? (via me)
I don’t know who you’re going for if the “Nice Guy” thing doesn’t work for you. Seriously… What’s happening is, you’re not the nice guy, you’re the unconfident guy who is nice. There’s a difference - the Nice Guy is fairly good with women, because he’s nice, but still has a spine and respect for himself. He sometimes explores the asshole side of himself, but only in extreme instances of self preservation. The spineless guy whimpers and says “Nice guys finish last” on the first date which sends up red flares to the girl pretty much instantly, then follows up with “I’ll do anything for you” if he ever gets to a second date. Dude - slow it up. Be nice… follow the guidelines above, but don’t bring an engagement ring to the premier date.
Having said all that. Yes, it’s true girls are somehow drawn to assholes. I can’t explain it, but then again, I can’t explain gravity either - there’s a formula, I’m sure. But here’s the deal, the person that made this list made it about a person they just broke up with. Guys, smart ones, at least, by and large do these things. Then, girls get… I don’t want to say used to it, but they aren’t recognizing it every time it happens. Then guys stop doing it. Then girls get annoyed that the guy has stopped doing it. This all takes place at about the 6 month period. *Exiting Honeymoon Period* Then it’s up to you to decide if you can look beyond the minor little things each other do for one another to whether or not you actually, actually want to be with this person (if they’re compatible, make you excited, etc. etc.) The smart guys do keep on doing this, but they bring it back to date night specifically. If you did it every day - it’d be expected. Aaaaanyway… I guess what I’m trying to say is do nice things for each other. Respect each other. Turn your phones off when around each other. And everything is going to be good. Oh… and don’t be a dick to the weight staff. Yeah… boom.
Girls… It’s science.(via nickgerber)
Well said, I was the spineless guy. Now I’m just a good guy.
Reblogged from Shutter Chicago.
